Technology

Oct. 26th, 2011 10:17 pm
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From The Book of Awakening: Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life You Have.

I am as all mortals are,
unable to be patient.

--Pablo Neruda



So often, in our agitation and impatience, we hurry off, annoyed and troubled…

Having said I like to think of myself as a patient person, there is one thing that is guaranteed to be the exception to that rule: technology.

When technology fails, or doesn't work like it should, or makes it impossible for me to do something that I want to do, I lose patience, get frustrated and fall foul of and prey to kneejerk reactions. Which happens a lot…

I run an old computer, and when I say 'old' I think I bought it in 2003… and as such it's quite slow… it doesn't have the best system resources. So… I try to make allowances for that… to remember that I may have to wait a while for a program to open, or for connections to be made or whatever. One of the things that was really bogging it down until very recently – system hog that it is – was Norton… so when it came up for renewal last week, I started looking at other options, asking advice, and eventually settled on a new software. I kid not, since the new software is installed and Norton uninstalled, my system runs more quickly and on the whole more smoothly, (it still has a problem running SimsSocial on FB, because of issues with Flash, but… on the whole it's true). But my computer is old…

When you're talking about large companies, and particularly companies whose line of work is technology and communication – I'm sorry, but I don't think it's too much to ask to expect their computers and interfaces to work properly. 'Nuff said.
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From The Book of Awakening: Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life You Have.

A mermaid found a swimming lad,
Picked him for her own.
Pressed her body to his body,
Laughed; and plunging down
Forgot in cruel happiness
That even lovers drown.

--William Butler Yeats



We want so badly to share our innermost experience with our loved ones, but often, like the mermaid, we forget that not everyone can go where we go.

I'm often told that I'm really confusing when I tell people things. To me, everything is perfectly clear in my own mind as to what I mean, because I was there, and I know what it's talking about, and it frustrates me that other people don't seem to be following, or get completely the wrong end of the stick, and then when we finally get to a point that they understand what I have meant, I get told that that's not what I said at all. I let it go – though the frustration lodges inside – what is the point in getting into a fight or cross words about such things. We understand one another in the end, right?

What really hurts though is that when the same thing happens the other way around, when I have misunderstood something, or not understood something, or not heard something or any of the other things that can get in the way of proper communication, I'm castigated for 'not listening.' I have listened, I have just not understood.

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