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 There really is SUCH a difference between different establishments within a single religion - and yes, I use that rather than faith. Went to a different church than the one I work at for someone's funeral and ended up feeling like 'Eeep, bring me home!' Not that I even /share/ that faith - just work at the church but still...

Anyway, it was a day of 'farewelling.' A funeral followed by a 'memorial'/celebration of life, and as you're maybe thinking right now, one was just... downright depressing, the other was so crazy and fun that the person we were celebrating would have loved it, if he had been there, but he wasn't and that was why /we/ were there, but I'm damn sure he was watching over us and approved!

After all that, a quiet evening at home, and an early night - yes, on a Saturday.
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 No one is ever ready to lose a child, and that goes for teachers too. Work was hard today, on top of my own sadness - working one on one with the student for two and a half, going on three, years forms a bond like family - everyone else that had taught him, and knew him were in various states of shock, mourning, sorrow, and looking toward me to share their feelings with. It was a weight, but it isn't a burden. It was a honor to have shared the journey with the young man, and the ending of that journey is also a part of the journey.  Other people will take the legacy forward now. But that doesn't mean my own sadness and grief is any less.  I grieve for his loss, but also for the pain his family must be feeling right now, because I feel close to them too.

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